Here are some great resources that you might find useful.
Dr. Brené Brown is a research professor in the field of social work, and the world’s leading expert on vulnerability and shame. While you might not ever want to trumpet your experiences to the world, Brené helps you remove your own personal stigma, and to make peace with your life choices. If you’ve not yet seen her TED talks (one on vulnerability, the other on shame), they’re a great place to start.
While she does have a strong focus on health strategies for menopause and aging, Dr. Brene Brown has built her career as an expert on women’s bodies – so she addresses a wide variety of subjects, including self-care and how to listen to your body.
One of the oldest and most established organizations providing information about sexual and reproductive health.
Your tl;dr is that abortion causes no negative impact on mental health.
The American Cancer Society has numerous scientific research studies showing that there is no link between abortion and breast cancer.
There is no link between abortion and infertility.